Comments on: The Five Projections of Love http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/ this is my happy place Thu, 11 Mar 2010 19:23:33 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Vak http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-13373 Vak Mon, 08 Mar 2010 17:34:05 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-13373 Thanks for this. Interesting and insightful. Thanks for this. Interesting and insightful.

]]> By: FAWiKi http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-160 FAWiKi Fri, 03 Oct 2008 10:12:03 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-160 Hi! The post is really interesting! I've read your blog and can say it's a good job. Hi! The post is really interesting! I’ve read your blog and can say it’s a good job.

]]> By: Boo http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-128 Boo Sat, 13 Sep 2008 00:30:14 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-128 The principles of the 5 projections of love are so true. All those failed relationships, the feeling of rejection when all it boiled down to was a misinterpretation. I'm with a guy now and for the first time it really feels right and you know what? It was the 'touch' projection, that he loves so much, that was missing from my previous relationships. I know it sounds completely corny but on our second date we were watching a movie at a friends house and he stroked my leg, an innocent touch but it made my heart race. That was when I fell for him, right there, mad isn't it? I just knew that I wanted more... Naturally touch must be my key preference and I didn't even know it. I would say we both have 'touch' and 'presents' in common, whereas his third projection is action which I really appreciate and recognise his efforts. My third preference is words though and I found that really hard at first, as we had a mismatch and I couldn't understand what it was that wasn't right. He's opened up now after we got to know each other better so he certainly meets my top three... lucky me. Reading about the 5 projections and looking back, I think I need to take more action to demonstrate to him exactly how much he means to me. I love it... it's a top tip that's easy to do. It's the small gestures that make all the difference isn't it? The principles of the 5 projections of love are so true. All those failed relationships, the feeling of rejection when all it boiled down to was a misinterpretation. I’m with a guy now and for the first time it really feels right and you know what? It was the ‘touch’ projection, that he loves so much, that was missing from my previous relationships. I know it sounds completely corny but on our second date we were watching a movie at a friends house and he stroked my leg, an innocent touch but it made my heart race. That was when I fell for him, right there, mad isn’t it? I just knew that I wanted more… Naturally touch must be my key preference and I didn’t even know it. I would say we both have ‘touch’ and ‘presents’ in common, whereas his third projection is action which I really appreciate and recognise his efforts. My third preference is words though and I found that really hard at first, as we had a mismatch and I couldn’t understand what it was that wasn’t right. He’s opened up now after we got to know each other better so he certainly meets my top three… lucky me. Reading about the 5 projections and looking back, I think I need to take more action to demonstrate to him exactly how much he means to me. I love it… it’s a top tip that’s easy to do. It’s the small gestures that make all the difference isn’t it?

]]> By: Kermit http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-104 Kermit Mon, 08 Sep 2008 00:53:57 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-104 Whatley...lets get married...we've figured it all out between us. Or alternatively....lets make a robocop type wife....a wife that understands us and knows how to project love to us, and receive what we're passing to them as love (which actually is an expression of love), and also be able to remember these times of love during tiny points of frustration (the little seed that sprouts the big argument plant)...and stay rational. They also have to be super cool etc. *smiley emoticons, hugs and such Good blog though dude, dunno how I overlooked this one. Whatley…lets get married…we’ve figured it all out between us.

Or alternatively….lets make a robocop type wife….a wife that understands us and knows how to project love to us, and receive what we’re passing to them as love (which actually is an expression of love), and also be able to remember these times of love during tiny points of frustration (the little seed that sprouts the big argument plant)…and stay rational. They also have to be super cool etc.

*smiley emoticons, hugs and such

Good blog though dude, dunno how I overlooked this one.

]]> By: Me http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-90 Me Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:25:45 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-90 If only my husband could read this! If only my husband could read this!

]]> By: Benjamin http://whatleydude.com/2007/12/the-five-projections-of-love/comment-page-1/#comment-86 Benjamin Tue, 02 Sep 2008 08:31:19 +0000 http://whatleydude.com/?p=136#comment-86 For more on the five love languages check out http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/ For more on the five love languages check out http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/

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